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Okay, I admit it, I’ve been stubbornly opposed to changing. I grew up in the mountains of North Carolina and was raised to say, “ma’am” and “sir.” Living in other parts of the country, I’ve been told not use those terms because, “It makes me feel old” or “I work for a living.” I would laugh, and explain that was just the way I was raised and meant it as a form of respect. Of course, I would refrain from using them again in that interaction. I justified retaining those terms with the idea that we need more civility and respect in our day toRead More →

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For everyone who is saying they support the police after the shootings of Anton Sterling and Philando Castile. I’m glad that you do, and you should. Police officers risk their lives so the rest of us can be safe. However, I would argue that those of us who demanding that the officers who use unreasonable force be held accountable, are doing more to support the good officers than those of you who are unwilling accept the fact that there are way too many officers who will overreact because of the color of a person’s skin. Remember, the job of the police is to keep everyoneRead More →

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I owe all of the women in my life an apology. While I have long been a supporter of equality and respect for all human beings, it took the video #MoreThanMean, posted by justnotsports.com, to make me realize that through my inaction and silence, I have inadvertently supported the culture of sexism and abuse. In the video, sports journalists Sarah Spain and Julie Dicaro sit across from different men who read some of the online abuse and threats masquerading as comments. It is painful to watch, but something we all should see. It made me think of the vile online comments I have read directedRead More →